Muslim should ask his Lord to let him live until Ramadaan with a strong religious commitment and good physical health…

Allah has favoured His slaves with seasons of goodness in which rewards are multiplied, sins are erased and statuses are elevated. From the greatest of these seasons is the month of Ramadan which Allah has made an obligation upon His slaves, encouraged them regarding it and guided them to show gratitude to Him for this obligation. Seeing that this act of worship is of such great value, it is necessary that one learns the rulings pertaining to the month of fasting. This treatise contains a summary of the rulings of fasting, its etiquettes and sunnahs pertaining to it.

The real nature of fasting in the month of Ramadaan, so they start to prepare from Sha’baan, and some of them even start before that. Among the best ways of preparing for the month of Ramadaan are: 

Sincere repentance 

This is obligatory at all times, but because of the approach of a great and blessed month, it is even more important to hasten to repent from sins between you and your Lord, and between you and other people by giving them their rights, so that when the blessed month begins you may busy yourself with acts of worship with a clean heart and peace of mind. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): 

“And all of you beg Allaah to forgive you all, O believers, that you may be successful”. [al-Noor 24:31] 

It was narrated from al-Agharr ibn Yasaar (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “O people, repent to Allaah for I repent to Him one hundred times each day.” Narrated by Muslim (2702). 

Du’aa’ (supplication) 

It was narrated from some of the salaf that they used to pray to Allaah for six months that they would live until Ramadaan, then they would pray for five months afterwards that He would accept it from them. 

The Muslim should ask his Lord to let him live until Ramadaan with a strong religious commitment and good physical health, and he should ask Him to help him obey Him during the month, and ask Him to accept his good deeds from Him. 

Rejoicing at the approach of the blessed month 

The arrival of Ramadaan is one of the great blessings that Allaah bestows upon His Muslim slave, because Ramadaan is one of the occasions of good in which the gates of Paradise are opened and the gates of Hell are closed. It is the month of the Qur’aan and of decisive battles in the history of our religion. 

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): 

“Say: ‘In the Bounty of Allaah, and in His Mercy (i.e. Islam and the Qur’aan); —therein let them rejoice.’ That is better than what (the wealth) they amass”. [Yoonus 10:58] 

Discharging the duty of any outstanding obligatory fasts 

It was narrated that Abu Salamah said: I heard ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) say: I would owe fasts from the previous Ramadaan and I would not be able to make them up except in Sha’baan. 

Narrated by al-Bukhaari (1849) and Muslim (1146). 

Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: 

From her keenness to do that in Sha’baan it may be understood that it is not permissible to delay making them up until another Ramadaan begins. 

Fath al-Baari (4/191). 

Seeking knowledge in order to be able to follow the rulings on fasting and to understand the virtues of Ramadaan. 

Hastening to complete any tasks that may distract the Muslim from doing acts of worship. 

Sitting with one’s family members – wife and children – to tell them of the rulings on fasting and encourage the young ones to fast. 

Preparing some books which can be read at home or given to the imam of the mosque to read to the people during Ramadaan. 

Fasting some of the month of Sha’baan in preparation for fasting Ramadaan. 

It was narrated that ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to fast until we said: He will not break his fast, and he used not to fast until we said: He will not fast. And I never saw the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) complete a month of fasting except Ramadaan, and I never saw him fast more in any month than in Sha’baan. 

Narrated by al-Bukhaari (1868) and Muslim (1156). 

It was narrated that Usaamah ibn Zayd said: I said: O Messenger of Allaah, I do not see you fasting in any month as you fast in Sha’baan? He said: “That is a month that people neglect between Rajab and Ramadaan, but it is a month in which people’s deeds are taken up to the Lord of the Worlds and I would like my deeds to be taken up when I am fasting.” 

Narrated by al-Nasaa’i (2357); classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Nasaa’i.  

This hadeeth explains the wisdom behind fasting in Sha’baan, which is that it is a month in which deeds are taken up (to Allaah). Some of the scholars mentioned another reason, which is that this fasting is like Sunnah prayers offered beforehand in relation to the obligatory prayer; they prepare the soul for performing the obligatory action, and the same may be said of fasting Sha’baan before Ramadaan. 

Reading Qur’aan 

Salamah ibn Kuhayl said: It was said that Sha’baan was the month of the Qur’aan readers. 

When Sha’baan began, ‘Amr ibn Qays would close his shop and free his time for reading Qur’aan.

Taken from Islamqa.

Devotee of the Sufi saint Ali Shah, Mustafa Khan wrote in his book ‘Jawahirul Manaqib’ that Kunde was first invented in Rampur (UP) in 1906 CE.

This article is all about a festival named after Mud/Clay bowls filled with sweet food, poisonous beliefs, evil intentions and innovated actions, widely known as ‘Rajab ke Kunde’ in Urdu/Hindi, celebrated by some ignorant Muslims, mainly in the Sub-continent.

Before going ahead and reading the below article I want you to read carefully with full interest and sincerity the below Quranic verse, in which Allah describes the quality of people who ignore the commandment of Allah and follow their forefathers in their beliefs and actions. So here it is, English translation of the noble verse from the noble word of The Almighty.

“And when it is said to them, “Follow what Allah has revealed,” they say,” Rather, we will follow that which we found our fathers doing.” Even though their fathers understood nothing, nor were they guided?” Quran 2:170

Now, let’s proceed toward the article that I am going to shed light on, for your benefit in this world and hereafter.

In the name of Jafar As-Saadiq (may Allah be pleased with him), every year on 22^nd of the Islamic month of Rajab, a good number of Muslims from an ignorant sects, celebrate a festival called ‘Kundey’, preparing sweet food (mostly rice pudding with other sweets) invoking upon Ghair-Ullah (other than Allah) specifically upon Jafar As-Saadiq, inviting guests to dine-in, serving the sweets in Kundey (mud/clay bowls).

False and Baseless Story behind the celebration of ‘Kunde’

Those who celebrate this, cite the story of a poor woodcutter. The story narrates that a wood cutter’s wife heard Jafar As-Saadiq in Madinah say that whoever prepares food in his name on the 22^nd Rajab, their prayers or Dua will be fulfilled by Allah and if their prayers are still not fulfilled, then they can grab his shawl on the Day of Judgment. [no reliable reference].

The wife related this to her husband who then did ‘Kunde’ and returned to his wife with lots of money. He built a glorious mansion in which he began living. It’s said that there was a minister’s wife at the time who didn’t believe in ‘Kunde’ and as a consequence her husband lost his  job. She then began doing ‘Kunde’ and her husband got his job back. Since then, the ruler and his people began celebrating ‘Kunde’. The extraordinary thing is that whilst this story is used to prove the practice of ‘Kunde’, it does not have any consistent reference or author for us to be able to know if it is even a genuine story or not.

As we know from the Quran and traditions of Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him), Islam is not based on tales, assumptions and/or desires. The Real Source of  Islam is the revelation of Allah, the way of the Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him) and the understanding of the consensus of his companions, peace be upon them all. No Muslim would disagree or have a problem with this, then why do some of us look elsewhere for guidance, hope and help?

Kunde was started in Rampur Uttar Pradesh

Devotee of the Sufi saint Ali Shah, Mustafa Khan wrote in his book ‘Jawahirul Manaqib’ that Kunde was first invented in Rampur (UP) in 1906 CE.

Famous poet Ameer Minayi’s son Khursheed Ahmed Minayi published a booklet named ‘Dastaan Ajeeb’ and promoted it among masses in 1906 CE.

Interestingly, Shittes coincided the date of the death of fifth Caliph of Islam Muawiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) that is 22nd Rajab by secretly celebrating it in the form of Kundas and promoted it through ‘Dastaan Ajeeb’ a false story attributed to Jaffer Sadiq (may Allah be pleased with him).

Who was Muawiyah bin Abu-Sufiyan?

Muawiyah ibn Abu-Sufiyan (may Allah be pleased with him) was the brother-in-law of the Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him), he was the brother of mother of believers Umme-Habeeba (may Allah be pleased with her).

Muawiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) used to bring water to Muhammad peace be upon him and it was in the course of this service that he received the shirt in which he was buried. He said, “I used to bring wudu water to the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him). He said, “Shall I not clothe you in a shirt? I said, “Yes indeed, by my father and mother! So he removed the shirt he had on and clothed me in it.” He kept that shirt for his burial. Al-Bidayah Wan-nihayah page 124

“In terms of his appearance, he was fair and tall, bald with a white head and he had a beard that he used to colour with henna. He was mild-tempered, dignified, dominant and noble amongst the people, generous, just and astute.” Al-Bidāya wa-n-nihāya page-113

Hussein (may Allah be pleased with him) would frequently visit Muawiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) with his brother and he would show great hospitality in return. Following Hassan’s (may Allah be pleased with him) death, Hussein (may Allah be pleased with him) would travel to see Muawiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) every year and in return Muawiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) would show great hospitality. Ref: The Caliphate of Banu Umayyah The First Phase Taken from Al-Bidayah Wan-nihayah page 134

Under Muawiyah’s governance the Syrian army became a major military force. He picked out the best leaders from various tribes where as elsewhere in the state the military units were still based along tribal lines. He personally saw to the comfort and the equipment of the troops, increased their pay and paid them on a regular basis when they were on duty. He kept the troops in training by an annual expedition against the Byzantines and therefore kept the Byzantines in a constant state of unease and therefore kept his northern border safe. He took Qaysariyya in 19 AH. 

He encouraged innovations in military technology. Muawiyah’s armies used “Minjenique” machines to propel large stones onto enemy ramparts. He modernized the army, introducing specialized units for desert combat and snowy terrains. New forts were also built.

According to Ali (may Allah be pleased with him), “Sometimes they would even set out without provisions, without asking for pay. At the call of Muawiyah, they put themselves on campaigns for two, even three times a year, not caring where he wanted to take them (Tabri 1,3410).

Death of Muawiyah ibn Abu-Sufiyan (may Allah be pleased with him) on 22^nd Rajab

Muawiyah ibn Abu-Sufiyan (may Allah be pleased with him) was tough against the uprisings, because of this reason he ruled peacefully for 20 years. He died on 22^nd Rajab, and the Shiites celebrated his death behind the closed doors since celebrating Khalifah’s death would be regarded as treachery. So does happen in Rajab ke Kunde, the celebrations and Kunde are made behind the closed doors, rituals take place within it and the food is later discarded in the same room.

Beliefs Behind Kundey and What Qur’an says about those Beliefs?

Ignorant Muslims who partake in this anti-Islamic festival of ‘Kunde’ or related rituals, do so with a set of beliefs and assumptions. The woodcutter story was only created to be a smokescreen for certain beliefs. Here we shall see what these are and what Islam says about such beliefs:

Nazar (Arabic) / Niyaz (Persian) / Mannat (Urdu) (Ibn Ahmed Alhindi, 2011): Those doing ‘Kunde’ predominantly believe in the concept of Vows, which is vowing to do something voluntarily such as giving money to charity or other forms of Sadqah-e-Jariah (or Khairat/Voluntary Spending). There are two kinds of Vows: Nazr-e-Muallaq and Nazr-e-Mubram.

• Nazr-e-Muallaq is vowing with a condition (e.g. if you do this for me, I will do so and so for you).

• Nazr-e-Mubram is vowing without a condition, like the wife of Imran said “My Lord! Verily, I have vowed to You what is in my womb to be dedicated to Your service”. Quran 3:35.

Thus we find people who have no children, are still single, want to improve their socio-economic situation and are in other problems making vows. By celebrating ‘Kunde’ attendees believe that by preparing food or spending in the name of Jafar As-Saddiq, he will be pleased with them and will help get rid of their problems or fulfill their wishes.

Vows are mentioned four times in the Quran (3:35; 19:26; 22:29; 76:7-9). If you read these verses carefully it will become clear to you that in each situation, a vow was made to Allah alone, and to no one else. As such there is no evidence to making vows for people, alive or dead.       

Can JafarAs-Saadiq help get rid of our problems and/ or improve our situation? ”And call not upon other than Allah, who can neither benefit nor harm you, for if you did so, you would indeed be one of the wrong-doers.” (Quran 10:106)

In our five times Salah we recite daily reiterating multiple times “{It is You(Allah) Whom we worship and it is Your (Allah’s) Aid we seek” (Quran 1:5)

Accordingly the ones who make a vow to other than Allah are essentially seeking someone else’s  help and aid even though Allah commands us, “And your Lord said: Call upon Me and I will answer you, verily, those who scorn to worship Me, they will surely enter the Hell-fire in humiliation.” (Quran 40:60). In this verse, our Supreme Lord Allah commands us to call upon Him alone. Calling upon Allah for help or to answer our prayers is to make a Dua (supplication).

Dua is a form of worship as we as Muslims must know through the saying of Messenger of Allah peace be upon him. Since, Dua is worship, then to make a Dua to other than Allah constitutes shirk because you are giving a share of Allah’s right to other than Him. “Oh, you who believe! Fear Allah and seek the means of approach to Him” (Quran 5:35). “And if Allah seizes you with harm, none can remove it but He.” (Quran 6:17)

It’s important to note that whilst seeking help from those who have died is not acceptable in Islam, this doesn’t mean we can’t seek help from others at all. In reference to those who are living, Our Supreme Lord Allah says, “Help you one another in righteousness and piety.”(Quran 5:2). We can help one another if we are alive and able to do so otherwise there is no evidence to seek help from those who have left this world.

Others believe ‘Kunde’ to be based on miracles they have seen firsthand (Sunni Forum,2008). However even Christians have claimed such miracles, does this mean they are on the truth?

And why must the miracle be attributed to a person?

Is it not possible that Allah blessed you so that you may be grateful, and yet you thank Jafar may Allah be pleased with him and others who themselves were grateful and pious servants of Allah?

Let’s look at a few more verses from the Quran which warn us of the severity and seriousness of Shirk (associating partners with Allah).

• But if they had committed shirk, all that they used to do would have been of no benefit to them. Quran 6:88

• And those whom they invoke besides Allah do not create anything, but are themselves created.(They are) dead, lifeless and they know not when they will be raised up. Quran 16:20-21

• And whoever hopes to meet his Lord, let him perform righteous deeds and not associate none as a partner in the worship of his Lord. Quran 18:10

In the end, I pray to Allah to grant all our Brothers and Sisters in Islam, the correct understanding of His Deen, keeping our hearts firm and steadfast on His Deen and make us capable of defending His Deen in all aspects. Ameen.